It is simply criminal to raise young girls without a real choice: the information they need to decide how they want to live their lives.
Girls' choices are many, and complex, and a significant number of them have lifelong consequences. The easy way out is not always the best way.
In my visit today, I came across a link to this article, with this arresting quote:
A woman, with her cycle of fertility, is not a forest to be cleared or a mountain to be strip-mined. Instead, she’s like a garden, yielding her fruits to the patience and care of the loving husbandman. Neither are children pests to be warded off with chemicals. Instead, they’re a crowning gift of marriage, the visible fruits of a love too strong to be contained in just two bodies.
The whole article is worth a read. And a discussion with the young women in your life.